Control " How much do you wan to be in control of your life? " " How much can you control others? " I was posed these 2 questions yesterday night.. N I tot abt it before I sleep... Ger, my ans: 1) How much you wan to be in control will determine how you work and behave.. Bei Dong vs Zu Dong.. =P.. In fact, I believe part of our self is formed by how much you think u can be in control of ur life... so if one noes me well enuff, you will noe I wun wan full control of my life... but aniway, I m a strong believer of fate... N fate is call fate becoz no one can change fate.. 2) I carn control others at all... I can only make myself vulnerable to others.. (definition of trust).. So dat means, I trust others not to harm me.. Ger: In a relationship, you carn control your partner.. He still have the freedom and rights to do what he wans & likes to do... You can only trust him to keep to his promises or tell u the things he is doin and not hurt u in ani way... Went for food tasting yesterday.. My sis's wedding dinner is coming.. Grinz.. aniway, during the food tastin yesterdae.. my bro mention about " you dunnoe what you dunnoe"... then I remembered what I always tot abt self - learning.. How to learn when you dunnoe what you dunnoe? N I remembered one of my JC classmates who always tot humans r pitiful.. becoz we dunnoe wat we dunnoe.. Yest before I sleep.. I suddenly feel its not tt bad to not noe what you dunnoe.. At least its better than to noe what you dun wan to noe... | 
